Living Like a Local: How to Blend In, Not Just Visit

What’s Going On,

Let’s be honest anyone can visit a new country, but living in one? That’s a whole different story.

When I moved to the Dominican Republic, I knew I didn’t want to just be another expat in a bubble. I wanted real connection. Real community. Real culture.

And that meant learning how to blend in, not stand out.

If you're dreaming of living abroad or already making the move, here’s how to truly live like a local especially in the DR.

1. Learn the Language—Even the Street Spanish

Yes, learning formal Spanish is helpful, but to really connect in the DR, you’ll want to learn the local slang and flow. Dominicans speak fast, cut off words, and love to use unique phrases (hello, que lo que?!).

Tips:

• Take Spanish classes (online or in-person)

• Use apps like Duolingo or Babble with a Dominican Spanish YouTube channel on the side

• Practice with your neighbors, friends, not just other expats

• Don’t be afraid to sound awkward, locals appreciate the effort!

The more you speak, the more doors open—literally and socially.

2. Build Real Community (Hint: It’s Not Just Expats)

It’s easy to stick with other foreigners, I see it all the time, but the real magic for me of living in the Dominican Republic happens when you build connections with Dominican neighbors, local business owners, and everyday people.

Try this:

• Attend a local church if that’s what you’re into, dance class, or fitness group (this one is the easiest to meet people)

• Buy things from your neighborhood colmado. Don’t forget to sit and have a beer there during the evenings and afternoon weekends. A good way to meet people.

• Chat with the street vendors, selling fruits, food, or products.

• Say yes to events when invited, like a birthday party, weddings, graduations, etc even if you only understand half of what’s being said. (My first Dominican wedding was an experience to say the least)

• Learn how to play dominoes (it's basically a national sport here)

Community in the DR is everything. When you show up with respect and consistency, people welcome you in.

3. Respect the Culture—Even When It's Different

Dominican culture is full of warmth, rhythm, and tradition but also some values and behaviors that might feel different from what you’re used to.

Maybe you’re used to strict time schedules, but here? Time is fluid. Maybe you're used to more personal space, but here? Hugs and kisses are the norm.

The key? Adapt, don’t judge.

Observe. Ask questions. Laugh at the mix-ups. That’s what I do, to keep from getting myself frustrated. Why be frustrated when you live on the beautiful tropical island? And always remember: You’re a guest in someone else’s home.

4. Shop Local, Eat Local, Live Local

The quickest way to feel at home? Live like the locals do.

• Shop at mercados instead of only big supermarkets. I like the big supermarkets, mainly because where I live there aren’t any mercados near me. But I sometimes shop at the mercados to switch things up.

• Eat at comedoras or street food spots (try a pica pollo or mangú breakfast!) Buy you coffee on the streets in the mornings.

• Take the guagua or carro público at least once you’ll get stories for days

• Support local artisans, tour guides, and businesses

Not only is it often cheaper, but it also supports the community that’s now supporting you.

🏡 5. Stay Curious, Stay Humble

Living in a new country is a journey not a checklist. There will be many moments of confusion, culture shock, and even discomfort. But that’s part of the growth. I embraced it. And it made things a lot more easier for me.

Ask questions. Stay open. Laugh at yourself. And don’t assume you know better because here, things work differently… and that’s okay.

❤️ Final Thoughts: More Than a Move—It’s a Mindset

Moving to the Dominican Republic gave me a life I love, but it also taught me a powerful truth: you get out of this life what you’re willing to put in.

If you want real community, cultural connection, and that live-your-best-life feeling… it starts with you.

So don’t just come here to visit. Come to belong.

Con cariño,
Jay
Live Your Best Life – from the DR 🇩🇴